photo © 2007 bradleyolin | more info (via: Wylio)Telling people about Embrace Richmond in a way that captures the spirit of what we are all about is one of the hardest things I have to do as an Executive Director. We are not a social services agency, we are not program driven and we are not cause focused. We are a community focused, relationally driven, community of faith. I was reading through some of the early writing that I had done back in 2003 before I entered seminary and started Embrace. I ran across this story taken from Wayne Cordeiro’s book titled Doing Church as a Team. This story was one of the early inspirations for what became Embrace Richmond and I think it captures the spirit of the work we are doing in a beautiful way. This is Wayne’s story;
Wayne was a child growing up on an army base in Japan. One day his family went for a ride outside the base. When they stopped for lunch an old man at a booth caught his attention. He was selling tiny birds that resembled a finch, in bamboo cages.
He asked the man how much and was shocked to learn they were only 100 yen each, about 36 cents. It was too good a deal to pass up so he bought one. As he walking back to show off the purchase to his family the old men called out to him in Japanese “Don’t forget to bring the cage back when you’re done!” “Bring back the cage when I’m done? I’m not planning to eat the thing. I just want to take it home as a pet.”, Wayne replied. “Oh no,” said the old man “You don’t understand! The 100 yen is to take the bird to the edge of the valley and release it, so it will be able to fly freely!”
This was the last thing this young boy wanted to do. He felt that was the dumbest thing he had ever heard of. But he did not have much of a choice, the old man was keeping close watch to make sure he got his cage back. So he walked over to the edge of the ravine overlooking the valley below, opened the cage door and gave the bird a couple of nudges. Edging it’s way suspiciously toward the door of the cage, it suddenly launched into flight with a jubilant chorus of tweets and whistles.
Cordeiro writes “looking back on the experience now, I would have paid 100 times more if I knew how important that moment would be to me years later. That day I learned the precious lesson of being a dream releaser.” He goes on to say
“The Church is laden with treasures, dreams and precious gifts, yet too many precious souls are going to their graves with songs left unsung, gifts yet unwrapped and dreams unreleased. We all have dreams in our hearts just waiting to be released.”
I think this story is an excellent metaphor for what Embrace Richmond strives to do. We encounter a lot of beautiful caged birds. Birds caged by addiction, mental illness, poverty, unemployment, depression and loneliness. I used to think it was our job to open the doors to the cages and let people out but after years of doing this kind of work, I have come to realize that they already have the keys. They just need someone to remind them of that fact and encourage them to unlock the door.
That last sentence sounds like an easy task but it has proven to be a very painful process for many who have grown so accustomed to living in a cage that freedom appears threatening or unattainable. While the little finch in Cordeiro’s story soared through the air, many of my friend’s wings are so underused that they often fall to the ground several times before they learn to fly. Our role as dream releasers is to be there when they fall and encourage them to keep on trying.
The first time I read this story, I dreamed of being a dream releaser. Today I am truly blessed to work with the most amazing team of “dream releasers” imaginable. So thank you Janie, Qasarah, Susan, Sylvia, Vanessa, Chinary, Antionette, John, Charles, Josh, Brian, and Ashlee. Thanks for helping my early dream of creating a dream releasing community come true.
If you are interested in being a “dream releaser”, please email me at firstname.lastname@example.org.